Matters of the Heart: Nom. Nom. Nom.

I will start with the biggest and best news first... Graham is eating by mouth! Graham had a swallow study on June 30th and he aced it. He was completely cooperative, letting us strap him in a tiny seat enclosed by an xray machine. He willing took all foods and drinks and swallowed perfectly on all consistencies. He is approved to take WHATEVER he wants by MOUTH!!

The speech pathologist was stunned. She couldn't believe that with Graham's respiratory history and not eating for 6 months that he did so well. She put her hand over the trach on the xray image and said if the picture didn't show the trach we wouldn't be able to tell it was there from his swallow pattern! Graham's home nurse was in tears and I was close. (I don't cry anymore. A 6 month hospital stay for your 2 yr old will do that. It will come back one day.)

We praise God for this milestone. It really is a MIRACLE. If you recall we had him on thickened liquids and pureed foods in feeding therapy last fall. Now after intubation causing some vocal cord paresis and the tracheostomy and not eating anything since January he is swallowing perfectly?!?! God answers prayer!!

This is such a game changer for our whole family. Graham is THRILLED to be eating again. We have not eaten or talked about food in front of Graham for months and now he can sit at the table with everybody else and eat. We are taking it slow with easy to eat foods such as crackers and applesauce. We are trying to get him in the UNC feeding clinic to for help moving forward and guidance on weaning gtube feedings once he is consuming more by mouth. Right now eating is more of a quality of life thing for Graham. The gtube will be around for a good while still and we are ok with that.

Look mom, no vent!
Graham has also been approved by the pulmanologist for 30 minute daily trials off the ventilator! (He still has the trach in his neck but it isn't connected to the vent.) Graham can breathe well enough on his own for 30 minutes as long as he is playing happily. If he gets anxious or upset then his airways start to collapse and he has to go back on the vent. A small step in the right direction.

Nurses
We have one day nurse four days a week that we absolutely love. She adores Graham and he adores her. It is such a blessing to have somebody that we feel comfortable caring for Graham. We still need more good nurses for nights and other days and the nursing agency is having difficult staffing us. This is a prayer point for us. To have competent compassionate nurses to care for Graham and all of his medical needs.

Books
Graham's biggest interest right now is books. He has learned to sign "books" and is constantly asking for "more books." He loves to sort them, stack them, read them, and point to them for us to name them. He flips through the books and points out similar animals or objects in different books. He has several books in the same series and he can find each one pictured on the back of the other books. He is one smart cookie if you ask me.

Moving
We are planning to close on our new house on July 20 and move on July 25. We are so excited! We can't wait to be in a one-story house. We are starting the packing now.

Twins
Ben and Hallie are 8 months old and they are sitting up on their own. They are rolling and pushing themselves backwards. It's only a matter of time before they are crawling. They are babbling and within days of each other Hallie starting saying "mama" and Ben started saying "dada." It is so sweet to hear them. Maybe it will rub off on big brother one day. Graham enjoys being around the twins. It is such a joy to see them altogether!